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Things Men Do Only With The Woman They Truly Love
Things Men Do Only With The Woman They Truly Love

If he is really in love with you, he will do this. There is a very clear difference between the way men and women show love. While women tend to be more demonstrative, more caring, loving, and thoughtful. Men on the other hand tend to be more practical because it cost them much to show their feelings.

However, when men are in love, they will not have the problem of showing it. Here are 8 things men do with the woman they really love.
- Truly Love
Truly Love
1. Listens to you.

Men do not usually concentrate on things unless they really value it. If he truly loves you, he will always concentrate and pay attention to all you talk to him about.

2. Argues with you.

Occasionally, discussion is a good sign that he wants to do things with you. It all means that he wants to know you more. If he does not love you he will not waste his energy to argue with you.

3. Fights for you love.

If he really loves you, he will move heaven, sea, mountain, and land to always be with you. He was overcome any obstacle that come in his way if being with you and will make every effort not to lose you.

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4. Sacrifice his happiness for yours.

When he takes into account your needs at the expense of his, there is no doubt he really loves you. This way does not only show that he loves you but also respects you and making small sacrifices for you does not bother him at all.

5. Takes your achievements as his own.

When a man truly loves you, he takes your achievements as his own. A man who truly loves you will never compete with you or feel intimidated by your achievements in life. Rather, he will encourage you to achieve all your goals and dreams.

6. He is afraid of losing you.

If something is true, a man who truly loves you will always show that he fears to lose you.

7. He sees you beautiful.

No matter how you look when you wake up, even if you have pimples, if you forgot to brush your teeth and fix your hair, the man who truly loves you will always see you beautiful without noticing these details. And even if he does, they won’t be motive to stop seeing you beautiful.

Story by Mavis Davor || DFM ||
July 16, 2020
How To Win A Girl’s Heart In 3 Days
How To Win A Girl’s Heart In 3 Days

So many guys think it is impossible after many failed attempts to woo a woman and get her to say ‘yes, but I tell you, it is very possible. The simple truth is women are emotional and are mostly not driven by what they see but by what they hear. If you are that guy who thinks you are not good enough and that is why you are getting a lot of rejections from women, I want you to eliminate that feeling because it is absolutely wrong.

There are some simple principles and things to follow that you neglect that has given you a lot of rejections but you don’t know.

If you want to woo a girl and make her fall for you in 3 days, follow this simple principles and see the result

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- How To Win A Girl’s Heart In 3 Days
How To Win A Girl’s Heart In 3 Days
So many guys think it is impossible

1. Be confident

This is where most guys fail from. When you see a girl you like, you can examine one or two things but don’t even waste time approaching her before you give yourself reasons that you are not good enough, who told you that? When you want to approach a girl, be confident and act as though you will get her and not trying out your luck. Confidence is one bad boy trait all girls like and desire. More so, that is the first impression you are giving her. Girls don’t like guys who are not confident.

2. Do not praise her

She has heard a thousand ‘you are beautiful’ and she knows it so in this second stage, don’t make that mistake of starting your conversation with that phrase. Many people have done that and when you do the same, you join those ordinary people trying to waste her time. At this point, you want to do something that will make you unique. Just introduce yourself and possibly ask for her name. If she is beautiful, ignore that and compliment something that she is wearing like her dress or shoes. When you do that, you make her emotionally attached to you as she will wonder “ why is this guy not praising my beauty as most people do? “.

3. Get her contact

If there is enough time, ask her some few things like where she lives, where she studies so that you can find a common point of interest and strike a conversation. Tell her you would like to have her number so that you can talk to her again. From your confidence, she will submit to you if you can give her that real first impression. And if you are a smart guy, you can give her your own number and ask her to contact you later, and if she does, you on already on your way to win her heart.

4. Don’t be needy, learn to wait

Once she gives you her number, don’t make yourself look desperate by calling her that day. She knows all the people she gave her number to that day and when you do this, you make yourself cheap. Make her emotionally attached to you by waiting for like a day or two and don’t fear she will forget. By doing this, you raise different questions in her mind like” why is he not contacting me like other guys?” making her more attached to you.

5. Setup a date

You will give her option and don’t show your weakness by asking her “ when will we go for a date?” or “ when will you be free for a date?” You will just have to tell her about the date and give her time you will go for it.

STORY by: Mavis Davor || DFM ||
July 16, 2020
TIPS TO BUILD A STRONG RELATIONSHIP.
TIPS TO BUILD A STRONG RELATIONSHIP.

A good relationship is one that is mutually dependent or interdependent. A good reason to depend on each other is survival. … A good relationship is built on a solid foundation of friendship. It is one of true partnership in every way.

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- STRONG RELATIONSHIP
Relationship
• Develop empathy and really listen to each other:
• Spend quality time as a couple regularly

• Spend quality time with yourself regularly.
• Don’t expect your partner to complete you. …
• Appreciate the little things. …
• Understand how you both express your love. …
• Learn to forgive.

Story by Mavis Davor || DFM ||
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July 16, 2020
Things guys do that make ladies lose interest in them.
Things that guys do

Things that guys do that make ladies lose interest in them.

Everyone has an interest in someone or something, not because of anything but probably because of a unique or a specific thing about that someone or something. For instance, when you buy cloth, initially you become so attracted to the cloth because definitely there was something special about that particular cloth, that was why you bought it.

But as time goes on, your interest in the cloth you loved so much begin to go away, probably because it has faded and you can’t take it out anymore or maybe it becomes too tight and you can’t wear it anymore. So here is a list of things that guys do
that makes ladies lose interest in them.

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- Things that guys do
Things that guys do
Things that guys do
- When he is intolerant to the lady, that is always not giving the lady the chance to express her view on issues.
- When he always cook up stories to get money from the lady, one way or the other, she may find out, and gradually she begins to think he is only after money and not her.
- When he doesn’t accept his fault in case he does something wrong.
- He refuses to offer apology when he goes wrong, with the excuse that he has promised himself not to apologize to any lady, she will eventually lose interest in you.
- When he doesn’t practice good personal hygiene, always his environment is dirty, his shirt is always crumpled, no ironed, his hair is always left unkempt. She will lose interest in you.
- Always speak harshly.
Things that guys do
- Not mindful of what she says, lets out any word from his mouth without thinking twice.
- When he is always giving unconvincing excuses or always giving out stories on the reason why he doesn’t keep in touch. Know that gradually you are forcing her to lose whatever she has for you.
- When he is irresponsible, forgetting that he is in a relationship and needs to do what has to be done.
- Demands gifts on every occasion without giving the lady any, not even on her birthday.
So guys, not all though, but this are a few things that when you do, it makes ladies lose interest in you.

STORY BY: Mavis Davor ||DFM||
June 22, 2020
Qualities Men look out for in women
Qualities Men look out for in women

Men who are matured see beyond the physical
features. They focus more on the inner beauty, depth and richness of her personality that makes her who she really is. A mature man looks out for qualities that makes a woman a better partner.

1. Humble And Submissive

Even though men like women who are ambitious, hardworking and smart, mature men will not go in for a career woman who waste their time chasing after wealth and status. A woman who is humble, down to the ground and very submissive is who every man wants to settle down with.

2. Decency

Men enjoy watching women who are dressed half-neked but the do not like the idea of other men watching their own partners dressed half-neked, it makes them feel insecure and jealous. Every mature man wants to have a partner who has a great sense of humor when it comes to how to present themselves.

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Qualities
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Qualities
3.Always happy

Men are aware of the fact that women are emotional by nature but they do not get attracted to women who are overly emotional, women who cry often, always in a bad mood, etc. Every man wants to be with a woman who laughs often, who radiates joy and gladness, who always brightens their day and makes them smile whenever they see them or think about them.

Confident

Men get very attracted to women who have confidence in themselves. Such women do not give up on themselves, neither do the criticize or underrate themselves. They encourage themselves and do not give up even when the going gets tough.

story by : Mavis Davor || DFM|| Torsaa
June 20, 2020
INTERESTING FACTS ABOUT MEN

INTERESTING FACTS ABOUT MEN

INTERESTING FACTS ABOUT MEN

Men are one of the two human specie on earth. They are often characterized by their masculinity and bold appearance. Asides the biblical fact that men were created before women, here are 10 other facts you should know about.

Men spend at least a year of their life staring at women
On an average day, a man spends about 43 minutes to stare at 10 different women. On the other hand, women only stare at men for an average of 20 minutes in a day.

This statistic was as a result of a comprehensive resea ch carried out by employees of Kodak Lens Vision Centers. About 3,000 persons participated in the study.

Men lie twice as much as women
On an average, men lie to their partner, boss and colleague at least 6 times a day. On the other hand, women only lie to people around them at most 3 times a day.

IQ dictates the lifestyle of a man

According to a research by scientists from Karolinska Institute, the IQ of a man dictates his way of life. The research focused on alcohol abused by men.

In the end, the statistics of the research showed that men with lower IQ drink too much while men with higher IQ drink less.

The older a man is, the better the chances that he’ll prefer loose clothings
Most often, the cloth we wear affects the way we feel.

This is also true about the way people on our surrounding pereceive us. This is the more reason why men feel more confident in suit at business meetings. As men age, theirý preference in cloth changes.

A young man might prefer to wear tight uncomfortable clothings while an older man will prefer to wear comfortable clothes as against fashionable ones.

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Men are one of the two human specie on earth.

Men eat twice as much when on a date
This is a strange fact that many might not have expected on this list. Regardless, when men are on a date with women, they tend to eat more in order to impress their date.

Men make friends based on common interests
According to a research by Ronald E Riggio based on friendship among men and women, men mostly make friends based on common interest while women make friends based on emotions and support.

Men prefer compliments from other men
Regardless of the sexual orientation of a man, research has shown that men generally prefer compliments from other men as against compliments from women.

This fact was proved by Robert Herbert of Binghamton University.
When men try to attract the attention of a girl, they keep their thumbs on their belt
To most men, placing their thumb on their belt is a way to show that they are strong and courageous. This pose is often involuntary and it dates back to ages when there was no belt. In the era of no belt, men trying to get the attention of women often gesture to their crotch.
Other facts about men includes;

Story by Mavis Davor ||DFM|| DIKODER.COM|

March 13, 2020
HEALTH BENEFITS OF CASHEW NUTS.
It is not the sour sweetness of cashew fruit that makes it sort of special.

Studies have shown that cashew fruit is one of the most nutritious fruits in the world. The fruit is a powerhouse of protein and minerals that include copper, calcium, magnesium, iron, phosphorus, potassium, and zinc.
Further studies also show that cashew nuts contain vitamin C, vitamin B1 (thiamin), vitamin B2(riboflavin), vitamin B3 (niacin), vitamin B6, folate, vitamin E (alpha-tocopherol), and vitamin K.

It is, however, important to note that cashew fruit juice is now popping up in herbal formulas designed to boost energy and sexual function. In other words, cashew juice enhances sexual performance.

Here are some of the wonderful health benefits of cashew nuts
1. It promotes healthy muscles and nerves
Studies have shown that cashew does not only play an important role when it comes to the development of bones, it is also vital for tissues, muscles, and other organs of the body owing to its good source of magnesium.

In addition, the magnesium contained in it helps facilitates the maintenance of healthy blood pressure, sustain the immune system, maintain nerve functions and keep the bones strong.
However, it is important to highlight that a deficiency of magnesium causes disruption in the metabolism of calcium and the hormones responsible for its regulation.
1. It boosts the immune system
Cashews contain zinc, which plays a vital role in the strengthening of the immune system against microbial infections, protein synthesis, and the healing of wounds.
It is extremely important during pregnancy for the growth of the baby and the developmental years of childhood to maintain a healthy body.
1. Cancer Chemopreventive Agent
Studies have shown that cashew contains antioxidants like anacardic acids, cardanols, and cardols. And research has proven that these antioxidants make cashew to be effective for people undergoing treatments for tumour and cancer.
1. It prevents the risk of stroke
Cashews are lower in fat than other popular nuts. It contains an average of 16 grams of fat per 1/4 cup. This fat is mostly unsaturated fatty acids, of which 75 percent is oleic acid, the same type of monounsaturated fat found in olive oil.

However, according to the American Heart Association, cashew can help lower your levels of “bad” cholesterol, or LDL, as well as preventing the risk of stroke and heart attack at the same time when eaten in moderation.
1. It prevents anemia
Studies have shown that cashews are a source of dietary iron which is vital for carrying oxygen around the body and aids in the functioning of enzymes and the immune system.
However, it is important to note that a deficiency of iron in the diet can lead to fatigue, anemia, and increased susceptibility to infections.

Story by Mavis Davor ||DFM|| DIKODER.COM|
March 9, 2020
Six reasons why people might hate you
Six reasons why people might hate you.

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Do you have a lot of people
who seem to have an issue or two with you for no reason?
Perhaps there are a few things you need to work on to build better relationships??
Let dive into it.

1. You do not respect people’s emotions!

Waking one’s emotions only to send them crashing down is preposterous.
There is no wisdom in building a world of prefabricated lies around another.
There is a need to be considerate of one’s emotions. Do not trigger a feeling you’re not honest about or ready to handle. Humans are emotional beings, they feel, so, they react. This is why they should be handled with much care.
If you probably own a personality that is not doing so much good to those who are lucky (or unlucky) to find themselves around you, there is a need to revisit that part of your mind and repair it.
Do you think about the effects of your actions on others before going on with it?

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2. You do not watch your facial expressions!

Your facial expressions? Yes! They say a lot. We all have issues, no one would love it if you’re always looking like you’re the only one the world is crashing on.
Sometimes people think you’re probably on the heat with them because of a certain face you keep around them… Always looking exhausted, frustrated, angry and all the bad emotions.
You need to change that face
I’m not talking about changing your facial structure through surgery or using too makeup because some nobody thinks you’re not good looking.. I’m talking about the unfriendly looks you might be wearing that definitely scares people away.
You would agree that even you wouldn’t love to be around the all scary face person. It’s bad for relationships
Keep a face that ‘lives peaceably with all men’. One that you can be approached with.

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3. You do not watch the tone you use on people

Your tone matters a lot. Not your ringtone! ( Oh probably that could matter too, lol) The tone you use when talking.
An angry, too serious, manipulative, seductive, or too sarcastic tone is not healthy to have around
There is a need to work on the tone you use in addressing a person.
Use the right tone for the right situations and people (strangers, family, employees, buddies, etc)
1. You do not watch the jokes you make!
  Everyone loves a funny person. In fact, jokes have a way of colouring the mood of everyone in the room. However, it could create a reverse effect if not handled well.
  Avoid jokes that belittle others, mock a known challenge or a body defect, incite anger or reveal too much about your target.
2. You are all about you!
Me, myself and I.
Those three words have been proven to be the best relationship breaker of all times.
Learn to put into consideration the feelings of others in whatever action you seek to take.
Selfishness is not a friend when it comes to relationships.

Six reasons

Story by Mavis Davor ||DFM|| DIKODER.COM|
March 5, 2020
How to make a girl leave her boyfriend and fall for you.
How to make a girl leave her boyfriend and fall for you.

girl leave her boyfriend

Girls are kind of emotional, in the sense that when you are with them, never hurt their feelings. now the following tips below are means of letting out girls to come to you…and note this are means of telling yourself that you are a man.
1. Take her to watch movies: you might invite her to come to watch a movie with you at the cinema ..by so doing she would get to know you through lifestyle
2.ask her about her current relationship: ask the girl how she is flirting with her boyfriend if there are areas she don’t like with her boyfriend and you will correct them for her…by so doing ..you will make her like you

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3.take her to bar beach on weekends: as a boy interested in her…take her to a beach were you can party together, share thoughts..etc

4.ask her out for a party: invite her on numerous party to have her with you…

Story by Mavis Davor ||DFM|| DIKODER.COM|
March 5, 2020
Who is Anna Rykova?

Anna Rykova is an international fashion editor, stylist and consultant. Former Fashion Director of Marie Claire Russia and Fashion Director of Cosmopolitan Russia with 17 years of global experience in Fashion.

Being trained as a shoe designer and having worked as one in the early years of her career, Anna not only knows the industry from the inside, she is also editorially and commercially minded.

Anna has worked with fashion icons like Linda Evangelista, Daria Werbowy, Ashley Graham, Lydia Hearst, Lea Seydoux, Elisa Sednaoui, and Rita Ora; collaborated with Internationally renowned photographers as Pamela Hanson, Chris Nicholls, Mathieu Cesar, Thomas Lavelle, Jack Waterlot, Yu Tsai, late Matt Irwin; as well as global beauty gurus like Peter Slavic, Franchesca Talot, Sir John, Olivier Lebrun, Mike Desir, Allan Milroy, Andre Cueto Saavedra, Sasha Nesterchuk, Hung Vanngo and many others in New York, Berlin, Milan, Paris, London, Dubai, Cape Town, and Moscow.

In 2014 and 2015 Anna was the only Fashion Director chosen to serve on the jury for the prestigious Prix d’Excellence De La Mode Marie Claire, alongside Chief Editors of the international Marie Claire editions.

In 2011 and 2012 Anna was one of the judges of Russian Next Top Model reality show season 2 and 3. As a local independent consultant Anna worked with such international brands and companies as Marcolin Eyewear, Max Mara Group, Laurel, Igedo Company, CPD and CPM, Michael Michael Kors, as well as such Russian brands like Ekonika Footwear, No One boutiques, MEGA shopping centers among many others

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March 4, 2020
Things that makes Women loose interest in Men
Things that makes Women loose interest in Men

5 Things That Make Women To Lose Interest In Men

Love is a beautiful thing, and its value is to be adorned and cherished for a lifetime. The affection and emotion that comes with love isn’t the type to be taken for granted no matter what.

Love demands proper care, adequate nurturing, time, attention and lots more to make it last long and stand the tests of time.

In this article, I’ll discuss about five things that makes women to lose interest in their male partners. They are:
1. Attention: The level of attention that’s invested in a particular thing will determine the level of its outcome. For instance, the amount of time and attention you dedicate to your work will determine the level of your productivity.
The same measure is applicable to relationships and love affairs, when a woman is deprived of attention, she becomes lonely and bored around her spouse and once loneliness sets in she will begin to fall out of love gradually.
1. Adornment: Feeling appreciated, welcomed, complimented and special is very important for women, because it gives them the feeling of being loved, cared for and appreciated by their partners.
Little compliments like appreciating a woman’s dress, shoes, nails, hair and acknowledging her efforts in other areas gives them more confidence and prestige.

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The moment a man stops appreciating his woman the moment he starts losing her to another man that adorns her the most.
1. Emotional Disconnect: The major cause of emotional disconnection is basically lack of communication or poor communication. It is crucial that partners remain connected and make each other a priority in their everyday’s life.
A little phone call checkup during work time, phone conversations during leisure periods, and proper communication helps to grow and strengthen the bond between two lovers but the moment these factors are missing or inadequate one or both lovers would get discouraged and eventually the love and feelings begins to fade out.
1. Boredom: Boredom is the lack of enthusiasm, lack of interest, apathy etc. Relationships are supposed to be fun, interesting and enjoyable. I have seen situations where people fall off the ladder of relationships (be it friendship or dating).
Most times, some men don’t take adequate notice of the amount of time they invest on fun and socializing with their partner. Making time for special outings, picnics, visiting the cinema, going on vacation etc are parts of the vital things that booms the liveliness of the love they both share.

So, if you want your woman to stick with you for the rest of your lives, spice things up a bit more.

5. Constant Criticism: No one likes being criticized often times, too much criticism sometimes makes women feel less appreciated and unwanted in every ways. The moment criticism creeps into a relationship, it gradually kills the warmth, feelings and affection a woman has towards her man.

The constant need to pick on and criticize everything she does, gives room for doubts to set in and it lessens the woman’s feeling for her man. Men should always try to appreciate the women in their life even when they are not up to the task.

A little thank you accompanied with pleasant corrections will go a long way in balancing criticism if need be.

These are the five major reasons why women do fall out of love. You can add other reasons you know in the comments section.

Story by Mavis Davor ||DFM|| DIKODER.COM|
March 3, 2020
THINGS TO NOTICE WHEN A PARTNER IS LYING

Lies build distrust in relationships. It is tough to date someone who is ever lying to you.  A relationship where lies are common is like a house of cards. A good partner will always speak the truth no matter the circumstances.

1. His/her stories do not add up

Lies are never consistent.  If your partner is a liar, all of his or her stories never make sense. Most of the liars exaggerate things hence making it difficult to trust them.

2. He/she goes missing in action more often

Liars never want anyone to understand them. Your partner is a pathological liar if he/she is ever missing in action whenever you need him or her. These people’s lives are full of lies, and you can never understand them.  These people’s lives are full of lies, and you can never understand them.

Lies build distrust in relationships. It is tough to date someone who is ever lying to you

SEE ALSO: Things that guys do that makes ladies loose interest in them.

3. His or her body language speaks a different thing

A sudden change in your partner’s body language could mean he or she is telling a lie. Most liars change the looks on their faces to hoodwink you. whenever she wants to tell a lie, watch changes in his or her body language, know that lies are on the way.

BY: Mavis Davor|DIKODER.COM|D FM

August 29, 2019